Well, who's the victim and who's responsible?
Here I was writing it all
Who ends up the victor and the loser, is the question.
But does it really matter?
People will always have something to say. Either you accept it as true or negate it.
If I am affected (and really affected!), I'd rather confront the person involved than go to all my friends asking for comfort, I'd rather talk to the person and have everything settled than go to all channels, whispering behind backs! - It will not solve anything - promise!
Since I may have unconsciously hurt their ego, (and really, many are not so sensitive about this, sometimes we are already hurting people with our words and actions and NOT know about it! - INDIFFERENCE! I am guilty of being one sometimes, my bad!), it would have been BEST for them (my choice) to
But it is all about INDIVIDUAL DIFFERENCES too, some (and this is not a racial thing, this is true
Life, life's like that at times. Either we live with it, fight it or do something about it!
My lesson learned:
I really need to start becoming more sensitive and conscious of my words and actions because I am directly or indirectly affecting the people around me. I am responsible, accountable and the time is now to do something about it.
I pray I learned mine this time.